Gay.com, for those with no reason to be aware of it, is a chat site oriented primarily towards gay men. Some go there to gab, some to pick up their next ex-husband, and others to pick up the fling du jour. Sometimes folks even go there to kill time on a weeknight without the annoyance of driving across town to a bar. A lot of folks combine one or more of the above in their personal gay.com mission statement.
They just upgraded, in what has got to be one of the most ass-backward so-called upgrades consisting of take-aways, bandwidth-nuking, and idiocy promotion I've had the misfortune to be an end-user for - thus, the poison pen came out to play. Enjoy.
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Good god.
Flaming hatred from the Seattle room. Were a decision-maker revealed, it appears many would support stringing them up by their balls over a slow fire. Much talk of terminating premium memberships, with the gist generally "I paid for the old gay.com, the one that worked - not to be some goddam beta tester for a piece of maggot ridden crap pretending to be a chat program"
IRC looks positively charming compared to this, and with none of the ads. You have a very short time-frame before migration begins at a significant level...
Losing the ignore lists that protected us from stalkers, lunatics, assorted bastardry, and adbots is simply unacceptable.
Randomly eliminating regional and local chatrooms does not improve user experience. Eliminating the ability for users to create their own rooms suddenly makes systems like IRC, which is wide-open to such things, much more attractive. Those servers are still up - the only thing gay.com has ever offered is ease of use, and the ability to rapidly access profiles and pics.
With the slowing of the site caused by forcing everyone through an over-burdened and unpleasant web interface, much of the advantage is gone - when someone can simply go to MIRC.com, download a thin client, and log into efnet or undernet.
Add to that, the breaking of the ability to pvt/IM someone internal to the site, and you can suddenly make a strong business case for roll-back to the last working backup (one hopes you have preserved backups) either permanently or untile these and other issues can be resolved - before making your entire user base unwilling and unwitting beta testers of a fundamentally dysfunctional system.
That business case is simple - gay.com and planet out depend on premium memberships for revenue, and perhaps survival (given your rather public fiscal challenges). Doing something that pisses off your customer base for those memberships with even half this level of thoroughness is an active of active boneheaded stupidity worthy of expulsion from the corporate clubhouse and removal of the washroom keys for every person involved from coders on up through whichever dippy Vice President that signed off on this suicidal idiocy.
I paid for a working system. Granted, the java client was so fouled up as to be useless, but there were functional alternative chat clients that left me with a reasonably pleasant user interface. One that worked, and made up for Gay.com's fundamental inability to produce a good user interface.
Now I'm left with a partly used membership for a broken and slow system, with no effective alternative way in.
I'm going to be wanting my money back right soon.
I couldn't agree more. Gay.com exerts high pressure, unfair marketing and billing practices (e.g. autorebilling credit cards and not issuing full refunds). The "upgrade" has prevented me from using Chat Client (another chat package). As a result, I've lost touch with friends I've accumulated over years of chatting. The ".com" in gay.com stands for commercial, not community.
ReplyDeleteI marked my calendar to cancel my premium membership once it expires and wrote them a letter and told them they were nuts to eliminate the iRC chat.
ReplyDeleteWTF were they thinking?
Well, this latest change in gay.com came right around the time of my premium membership renewal. After seeing that the chat client was no longer useable, the lack of ignore features on the chat (which is the only thing that can make some people in the chat seem tolerable or pleasant) made me rush to change my credit card info and stop the renewal of the premium membership. Even if they have a huge SALE on membership, unless the ability to use a 3rd party, non-browser based chat client, and the ignore and bot protections that were available before they will never see another premium membership dollar from me, and I've been a premium member for many years now.
ReplyDeleteIf you are not on dial up and are being frequently disconected from group chat in gay.com, please call 1-866-313-6373 to report the problem. I called and was told it was only happening to me, despite the fact that several other members told me it was happening to them also. The tech documented that I was on dial up after I told him I was not. If enough people call in to report the problem they may start looking at their website in stead of blaming user's isps.
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ReplyDeleteI apologize for talking about an external site on here, but I did make this site because I had the same concerns as a lot of people in these forums. I am one of you. I did something about it. Someone needed to. :)